Tea and Talk With Our Ukrainian Guests
Our next Tea & Talk will be on Sunday Sept 15, 2:00 - 4:00 in the Fireside Room. On Sundays every month or so since June 2022, St. Philip's has hosted Tea and Talk for Ukrainians who have fled Ukraine since April 2022. We host mothers, fathers, children, singles and seniors so they can make friends and support each other.
In August 2024, four of the girls and one brother set off together to spend a week at Camp Artaban, thanks to a donation from late parishioner Peter Fryer given before he died in 2023. Enjoy the title photo of the five children about to embark from Horseshoe Bay to Camp Artaban on Gambier Island, and the four girls marching off together.
At the Tea & Talk gathering in June, 2024, Zlata created a badge for herself that epitomizes the influences on her life: the colours of Ukraine and of Canada with the word "ME" in the centre. A week at Camp Artaban enriched that connection to her new home.
As the children play in the gym, the Ukrainian women, some husbands and seniors too, gather in the Fireside Room to talk over coffee, tea and treats. Volunteers, from St Philip's and the neighbourhood, lead the children in crafts and boisterous play in the gym, and serve the women in the Fireside Room so they are able to chat for a couple of hours while the kids play right across the hall. There is just enough separation, and just enough proximity, for both mothers and children to enjoy their afternoon in total security. Strong friendships have been forged.
The Outreach Committee has funded us enough budget to cover refreshments and crafts. I am deeply grateful to the loyal volunteers who show up when they can to keep this event going. What a team! I give special thanks to the co-founder, Trisha Hiland.
Gatherings will continue every month or two if we have volunteers to help host and if Ukrainian guests still attend. If you'd like to help with providing baked goods and fruit, serving refreshments, doing kitchen duty, or playing in the gym, contact Debbie Matheson or speak to a warden. We'd love to have you!
The photos give a taste of Tea & Talk gatherings since June 2022. Enjoy them!
Overview History:
Attendance at Tea & Talk grew exponentially from June 2022 into spring 2023. In 2022, new guests joined us each month as families fled Ukraine to get their children out. Attendance has dropped since May 2023 when some families' one year free tenancies ended. Families have moved out of Dunbar as the mums have found jobs, and switched from one-bedroom basement suites into a larger flat, or a house as more relatives joined them, or charity housing far away. Some grandmothers and mothers-in-law have arrived since June 2022, and four babies have been born. The families have been finding their way, settling into new neighbourhoods, and making friends. In July 2024, a mother and son moved to Hamilton for her job at the university there.
Some Reports of Past Gatherings:
On February 18th, the first Tea & Talk of 2024 saw nine Ukrainian adults, seven children, and six volunteer hosts gather for fellowship, food, and fun, plus a polished piano recital in the Fireside Room performed by a 14-year-old Ukrainian-Canadian grandson of one of the older couples. The focus of Tea & Talk has always been to provide a space where people share mutual support in a welcoming space. This time, two older couples enjoyed social time together and practised english with their hosts. Five women shared mutual support about life here, careers, parenting and coping. The kids tore around the gym or created glitter-covered play dough creations.
On Sunday, December 10th 2023, 55 people gathered for a wonderful potluck Winter Feast. It would have been 70 if cold season hadn't thinned the ranks. A team of stalwart volunteers and hard-working guests all pitched in to make it happen. Thanks also to Francis Hart D'Emilio, our caretaker, for his extra service that day. People cherished time with friends from Tea & Talk, and met new people to connect with. It's all about connecting people so they can take it from there. Enjoy the recent photos, and scroll through the past two years to get a sense of this wonderful group of mutually supportive Ukrainians and their Canadian hosts.
Tea & Talk celebrated Hallowe'en on Oct 29, 2023, by inviting the children to come in costume, granddad Vitalii came dressed as Super Mario, and we shared Ukrainian sweets. In the gym, one of the volunteers hosted her duaghter's class for her seventh birthday and the Ukrainian children mixed in with gusto.
On a lovely hot afternoon, May 14th 2023, we celebrated Mother's Day at Tea & Talk. We also welcomed two musicians, Bernadette and Tim Ma from Immaculate Conception Parish across the road, who volunteered to serenade our guests with guitar and violin. While the troubadours sang to the adults, some children played about in the gym and some made crafts: a three-ring circus as usual. Mums and some newly-arrived 20-something women relaxed in the Fireside Room over treats. One mother of two was thrilled to introduce her husband who has been able to join his family in Canada after over a year of separation! Anna, her daughter Sofia, and baby Aaron were there, having bussed all the way from White Rock, where they now live, to gather with their friends at Tea & Talk. These friendships have been life-lines for many of the mums who arrived alone with their children.
Our previous Tea & Talk event on the evening of April 16, 2023 was a potluck Easter Feast with about 40 people sharing dinner in the Fireside Room. Head colds and Covid kept two large families and others at home on the day, trimming the number of guests from 55 to about 40. We still had fun, the kids decorated Easter egg bags, we ate fabulous food, lounged over desserts while the children watched the film Peter Rabbit in the gym, and finished with an Easter egg hunt in the church. (See Olga's little Easter Egg Hunt video, below.) Not one egg was left behind between the hymn books! Not. One.
The largest group photo, from February 19, 2023, looks full but is missing lots of little boys who are still tearing around the gym until their mums drag them out the door. There are four thriving babies (three born in Canada since their mothers arrived from Ukraine) who will soon be on their feet, and one who's already stomping around the gym.
On Saturday Dec 10th, 2022, at a Winter Feast, the families who attend Tea and Talk gathered with other Ukrainian friends and Canadian host volunteers to break bread together in celebration of new friendships. Over 55 people shared a fabulous buffet in the Fireside Room, from pirogies to borscht to beet salad to Bison Stew! Then followed desserts of every kind! Ukrainian guests and children came up to stand in front of the fireplace and sing Christmas songs to us all, including what we know as The Carol of the Bells, which was created by a Ukrainian composer. It was a meaningful, heartfelt evening for everyone.